Archive for February, 2010

Tap Your Body’s Hidden Talents

Wednesday, February 24th, 2010

By Madonna Behen, Women’s Health

Women have the ability to grow an entire person (or eight!) inside their bodies–which, frankly, makes Criss Angel look like a bar magician. But that’s not all–the human body can perform plenty of other amazing (and useful) acts.

STOP NEEDLE PAIN!

Make your next flu shot feel less piercing by putting pressure around the area that’s about to be stuck, says Ross I. Donaldson, M.D., M.P.H., assistant clinical professor of medicine at UCLA’s David Geffen School of Medicine. “Make a circle with your thumb and forefinger and push down for a few seconds as you’re receiving the shot,” he says. By stimulating receptors for pressure or touch, you can override nearby pain receptors in your skin. “It confuses your nerves, so a shot feels more like a gentle poke than a sharp jab,” Donaldson says.

SILENCE HICCUPS!

Take the deepest breath you can, hold it for 10 seconds, then, without exhaling, suck in more air and hold it for five more seconds. Finally–still without exhaling!–breathe in as much more air as you can squeeze in, hold for another five seconds, and exhale. Then breathe normally. This technique immobilizes the diaphragm (the muscle at the base of your lungs), preventing the spasms. Luc Morris, M. D., and his colleagues at the New York University School of Medicine tested the method on 30 patients who were prone to frequent hiccups. “It worked immediately on everyone who could do it,” he says.

BREAK A FAINTING SPELL!

Cross your legs, squeeze your thighs, and contract your abs. You can feel faint when your blood pressure drops and blood pools in your extremities. By tensing muscles, you keep your BP up and divert blood back to your heart and brain. University of Amsterdam researchers who tested muscle-tightening exercises found that they reduced the risk of passing out by 30 percent.

HEAL NIGHTTIME HEARTBURN!

Feeling the fire? Sleep on your left side. This preserves the natural curve of the esophagus, which helps keep stomach acid from creeping up. (When you sleep on your back or on your right side, gravity straightens out the curve.) A study by Graduate Hospital in Philadelphia found that frequent heartburn sufferers had fewer episodes when they slept on their left sides than when they slept on their backs or right sides.

HOLD BACK TEARS!

If you’re tearing up at an inappropriate moment, just clear your throat. “It interrupts the mechanism in the nasal passage and larynx that controls crying,” says Rebecca Nagy, a Charlotte, North Carolina-based meditation expert. Plus, after you clear your throat, you tend to swallow. This lifts your tongue to the roof of your mouth, which blocks the soft palate, making you unable to cry. “I’ve suggested this technique many times to brides and grooms who had trouble getting through their vows,” Nagy says.

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Get Fit On The Down Low

Wednesday, February 24th, 2010

By Heather Cabot, The Well Mom

Just as the First Lady launches her new “Move It” campaign to combat childhood obesity, a new book is out to help parents try some under the radar ways to entice the whole family to be more active.  Like a lot of parents, I encourage my twin four-year-olds to walk as much as we can and take the stairs instead of the elevator.   Many evenings, we just turn on loud music and have a dance party.  But even in my household, it’s not always easy to make calorie burning seem fun or just plain, second nature.  In their new book, Sneaky Fitness: Fun, Foolproof Ways to Slip Fitness Into Your Child’s Every Day Life,  exercise and nutrition expert Larysa DiDio teams up with “The Sneaky Chef” Missy Chase Lapine to offer a lengthy list of age appropriate ideas to entertain and inspire kids (and grown ups) to get off the couch and get moving.

From making a music video (#58) to balancing an ice cube on their heads (#27)  to jumping around on bubble wrap (#42), the authors suggest 100 different ways to get you and your children to burn off some energy.  As a recent transplant to New York City from sunny LA, I can also attest that these are great ideas for making the most of snowy or rainy afternoons.

The two authors met by chance when DiDio was describing to a fitness client some of her “sneaky” tricks for getting her own children to add more activity into their day, like telling them the elevator is broken.  The client introduced her to Chase Lapine who, coincidentally,  lives in a neighboring town and was looking for advice to help her own daughter become more active.  DiDio and her husband own a gym in Pleasantville, NY that tailors fitness programs to young people.  The two moms hit it off.   They immediately began exchanging ideas, including Chase Lapine’s nutritious chocolate chip pancake recipe which DiDio now serves her own six-year-old, who has a reportedly wicked sweet tooth.   That was three years ago.  Through it all, the two women bonded over their personal experiences and agree that the key to getting families fit and healthy is making the habits enjoyable.

“I have a tween client who loves Beyonce.  So we made up a routine to “Single Ladies”  And we do sit ups and push ups on this part of the song and then at that part of the song we do squats,” DiDio says of one of the young women she trains.

The book also includes new recipes from Chase Lapine’s bestselling book The Sneaky Chef,  which helps parents covertly boost their kids’ intake of vegetables and fruit by mixing nutrient rich purees into kid-friendly foods like adding cauliflower to macaroni and cheese.

Despite the inventive twist on healthy living, DiDio says all the creativity in the world isn’t going to make an impact on children if parents aren’t leading the way.

“It’s really hard for kids to become healthy if we are not role models,” says DiDio.   For parents who feel overwhelmed by starting a weight loss or exercise program of their own, she says it’s best to go one step at a time.  “Get rid of cookies, make smoothies from scratch…make some healthy swaps like getting rid of regular soda and instead, do juice mixed with soda water,” she advises.

It’s hard work to change lifestyles.  But DiDio says the added incentive for busy parents is that the activities in the book can also help out of shape adults slim down, too.

“A mom can get her fitness activity done for the day and get her kids in shape by doing the fun activities that we mention in the book – all without going through the trouble of changing clothing, driving to the gym, doing the exercise, driving home and showering.  It gives a mom more time to do the things that she loves to do!”

Sounds good to me.

Do you “sneak” fitness into your kids’ days — and yours?

Trauma At The Gym

Friday, February 19th, 2010

By Heather Cabot, The (not so) Well Mom

Hearing the word “trauma” in association with your own condition is never good.  Yet there I was in a hospital gown, waiting for my neck and back to be x-rayed when I overheard two kind technicians trying to decipher what was wrong with me and how to label it on my chart.

“Was she in an accident?” whispered one. “Did something fall on her?”

“No,” explained the other woman solemnly, “It was trauma…trauma at the gym,”

Trauma at the gym.  Sounds like the title of some 70’s era B-movie with a Jason-like maniac in a headband and sweat pants chasing down a leg warmer clad heroine.

That’s not exactly what’s causing the throbbing in my neck and my face to feel like it’s sliding to the left.  But the apt description made me smile as best I could on a really crappy day.

In fact, I did suffer trauma while working out a couple of days ago.  I was doing an overhead press with a 30-pound barbell and adjusted my neck ever so slightly when I felt a crunch and a pain so sharp that I had to bite my lip to keep from crying.  Like any busy mom, I have a high threshold for pain so I figured I would “tough” it out and stick to my normal routine with the kids that afternoon.  That was dumb.  It wasn’t until I woke up with pain throbbing down my arm and tingling in my fingers that I realized this was not a little tweak.  It was serious.  I needed help and I was scared.  The following day, I went to a sports medicine specialist and he diagnosed me with a shoulder sprain.  I can barely breathe without hurting.  But at least, now I’m on the mend.

I wanted to share my own little cautionary tale because it is a scenario all too familiar to fellow mothers who take care of everyone else so well that when injury or illness strikes, they do not listen to their own bodies.   One of the greatest challenges for anyone who needs to be “on” all the time, is respecting the need for rest and recovery.  It’s hard to wrap your head around it.  But just like those amazing athletes we’re watching in Vancouver this week, taking the time to heal is essential for peak performance.  Case in point,  Olympian Lindsey Vonn and her nagging shin injury, who because of poor weather, managed to get an extra few days of rest before she took the downhill gold medal this week.  Sometimes you have to be forced to sit on the sidelines.  But the pay off is real.

I was supposed to be sitting on an airplane today bound for sunny Houston and the exciting Mom 2.0 Summit, a gathering of cool mom bloggers and marketers who meet once a year to network, brainstorm and party.  But here I sit in my New York apartment, clenching my teeth in pain, under doctor’s orders not to fly, chomping at the bit to run off my aggravation on this somewhat mild 40-degree day.

There are certainly worse things in life.  But injury is a bitch.

I have spent my life working on being fitter and stronger, especially after becoming a mother to twins four years ago. I was actually going to be speaking on a panel about body image at Mom 2.0 and discussing my zeal for “training” for life and the demands of parenthood rather than my previous, more vanity oriented goals (I still have those, too. But the focus on family definitely motivates me in a more passionate way).

In honor of my upcoming fortieth birthday, I had resolved about 6 months ago to finally add in some resistance training to my cardio-heavy routine.  Those of you who know me, know that I live for running and spinning and anything that gets my heart pumping.  So I was trying to follow my plan earlier this week, working out with a trainer when fate struck.  I know I’ll feel better in a few days.  As I said, there are certainly many worse things than a hurt shoulder.  But the break from the daily grind and even my disciplined workout routine is giving me time to reflect and to embrace what I’m going through.  I know that to heal, I have to step back.  Often times, letting go or pulling back is the best and only remedy. I’ll keep telling myself that over these next few weeks as I embark on a program of physical therapy and rest.  Whether it’s a hurt shoulder or weeks of sleep deprivation or stress, taking time off to recover does not make you a wimp.  It makes you smart.

I’ll take smart and annoyed over dumb and compulsive any time.

How about you??

Just Suck It Up

Monday, February 15th, 2010

By Carol Kaufmann, Mama Tricks

The hubby and I gave each other the ultimate Christmas gift. (And no, it was not another potential baby.) As allergy-prone souls in a cooped-up winter of dust, molds, cat dander and two toddlers, we’d had all the stuffy noses we could take. No more.

We splurged big time; we bought a new vacuum cleaner.

The suction of our all-the-bells-and-whistles Dyson is so powerful, our neighbors report cleaner carpets. For those who haven’t seen the witty commercials, or experienced this engineering phenom, allow me to illuminate. As we glide the Dyson over our crumb-covered carpets, we can actually SEE the crumbs (or whatever) being sucked up into the body of the cleaner. So
gratifying is this vision, the hubby and I argue over whose turn it is to vacuum.

Because I spend way too much time in my house thinking about how to keep kid detritus at bay, I’ve learned why this vision fills me with such satisfaction.  The machine neatly contains all the crap that is an inevitable part of parenthood—the dinner droppings, the bits of Play-doh, the pieces of plastic toys that seem to have no home, the dirt, the dirt and the dirt.

The ultimate organizer, the vacuum places all the unwanted pieces of life where they should go, away from a place where it causes trouble. (Or sneezing.) It doesn’t leave a spec of anything remotely unpalatable around to further annoy anyone.

While vacuuming this week, I found that I wanted to be more like my Dyson. I thought about all the times I’ve aired my dirt, my complaints about my too busy, stressed out existence all over the proverbial rug of (un)willing listeners. My rants usually served no higher purpose than stirring up my own cloud of dust. Perhaps I would have been better off emptying out my collection of irritants into the trash.

Aren’t we all a bit tired of the never-ending whine about our complicated, over-scheduled lives—especially our own? It’s the 21st century. Life. Just. Moves.

Drop obligations. Say no. Streamline. Leave the dishes unwashed. and (gasp!) the rugs unvacuumed. Schedule a massage. WHATEVER! Keep your head down and keep on.

Suck it up. Just like the Dyson.

Carol Kaufmann regularly shares her “Mama Tricks” with The Well Mom. Her work has appeared in Reader’s Digest,National Geographic, The Washington Post, and in the anthology, A Woman’s Europe.  She lives in Alexandria, VA with her husband, two children and two obese rescue cats.

8 Ways to Renew Your Relationship

Monday, February 15th, 2010

By Marty Babits, LCSW, BCD,
Author of The Power of Middle Ground: A Couple’s Guide to Renewing Your Relationship

1. How many ways do I love thee? Let me count the ways. Pick at least three qualities about your partner that you love. Gift each one of these with something special. For example, give him a CD by his favorite recording artist in celebration of whatever you consider to be his (or her) most appealing facial feature. Choose a clothing accessory that includes the color that you think best flatters your partner and celebrate the way they look in that color. Come up with a quality that you have always valued, from the start of your relationship onward and feature that in a message written in a blank card by you with a tender sign-off. De-emphasize the gifts and emphasize the qualities that you want to call attention to and celebrate.

2. Surprise! Believe it or not some psychoanalysts evaluate the psychic well-being of their clients by determining the degree to which they are capable of surprise! A person who is not responsive to surprise elements in their life is unable to respond spontaneously. Their capacity for joy — and feeling in general — is impaired. Give your partner a reason to light up the surprise center in their mid-brain! Think of something that they would like but will not suspect. Have you written them a poem lately? Have you recorded the opening strains of “You are the Sunshine of My Life” on a hand-held tape recorder lately and handed it to them with a post-it instruction to hit the play button? When was the last time you brought your sweetheart a passion fruit chocolate truffle from one of the finest chocolatiers in your community? Whatever it is, make it pleasant and surprising. By the way, the residual benefit of surprising your partner is that you activate your own surprise center. No pun intended, it will be surprisingly beneficial for you.

3. Hand your partner a prerogative pass. (Print it out on an index card if you like.) With this pass he or she will be able to exercise their prerogative in a situation where there is usually a conflict over who gets their way. The one limit to the pass is that they are not allowed to exercise a prerogative if it forces you to do something that you feel uncomfortable doing. Next time you have a conflict over which restaurant to go to your partner can flash the prerogative pass and you’ll go Italian if that’s their choice rather than whatever else you might have felt in the mood for. Again, this presupposes that you like Italian — whether or not it would have been your pick that evening or not.

4. Look your partner in the eye and tell them three things that you love about them. They can be big ticket items, like the way you feel together when you are making love. They can be smaller fare, like the way you love it when they wrinkle their nose and close their eyes when they are hysterical with laughter. They can be somewhere in between like when they listen to you explain something in a way that you yourself realize is quite impossible to follow without complaining that they got lost four times in the telling. Write down what you are going to say before beginning this one. Then read it with feeling as if you were auditioning for a part in a movie starring opposite whoever your greatest heart-throb might be. By the way, you can fantasize about a star from any era in this exercise. Living or dead, domestic or foreign — anything goes. Only make sure you deliver your lines with feeling.

5. Think about something that you and your partner have had trouble coming to terms with in the past year — like speaking civilly to each other when either of you is angry; or perhaps, discussing a conflict in your financial situation. Without referencing your partner, give a commitment to improve your own ability to speak about the topic without blaming. Tell your partner that you are going to accentuate understanding the issue from their point of view and that you are hoping to have fewer hurtful arguments this coming year. Tell them that you want to conduct your relationship in the middle ground as much as you possibly can; this means that you want to work together, acknowledge and appreciate each other’s hopes and dreams and make all plans with these understandings in mind.

6. Is your partner an exercise enthusiast? If so, did you happen to catch Marisa Tomei doing hula hoop exercises on The Ellen DeGeneres Show? The exercise looks like fun — read about comments on this product on Amazon — and if you think your partner would enjoy a novel kind of exercise, purchase the item and attach a note pledging, “I hope you enjoy going through this hoop. I look forward to going through all sorts of hoops with you! And I’m lovin’ it.” Note: Only take this suggestion if you and your partner have a similar sense of humor and you think this would tickle them.

7. Do you prepare a food dish that your partner loves? If the answer is yes, put an announcement inside your Valentine’s Day card saying that on such-and-such a date you will be cooking a blankety-blank dinner for them to continue on with the celebration of the love you share. Ask them to contribute on that night by bringing along whatever will enhance the meal for you — a favorite beverage or dessert that they can purchase or make.

8. Take a minute to think about a trait of yours that your partner has communicated having a problem with — for example, a hot temper or messiness. Think about any constructive suggestions that your partner has made that you think, when you are considering this calmly and not when you are in the heat of a disagreement, is reasonable and possibly something that you might be able to put into practice. This tip works best if you feel that the trait is something that you actually would like to change within yourself. Research self-help either on the internet or in the self-help section of your favorite book store and find out what authors suggest may be helpful in your particular situation. Jot down the best helpful tip you can find and write your partner a note stating that you have heard their complaint, take it seriously and are poised to work on it. Outline the plan that you have read about that makes sense and feel you can realistically implement. Describe it to your partner. Sit back and let the communication magic do its work. You will have just demonstrated acknowledgment of their feelings; appreciation of their communications on a difficult topic; acceptance of their concerns. You well may have instilled hope and mutuality into your dialogue.

More originality in your renewal message signals desire to take things higher. Chocolate and flowers have their appeal, but can become real humdrum. So take some time, do some prep work and put these tips into action — as many as you can. Maximize connection with a fresh plan.

© 2010 Marty Babits, LCSW, BCD, author of The Power of the Middle Ground: A Couple’s Guide to Renewing Your Relationship

Author Marty Babits, LCSW, BCD (New York, NY), is a psychotherapist in private practice and a member of the Executive Supervisory Committee of FACTS (the Family and Couples Treatment Service) of the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy.

Boost Your Brain Power

Monday, February 1st, 2010

Courtesy of Women’s Health

Of all the things we gain with age—wealth, wisdom, children—a sharper mind isn’t one of them. Instead of being a steel trap like it used to be, it’s probably starting to resemble a colander. Life keeps pouring in, but you retain less and less of it.

But researchers are discovering that there are ways to forestall the decline. The secret? Stop taking your gray matter for granted, says P. Murali Doraiswamy, M.D., chief of biological psychiatry at Duke University’s medical school. “You can add 10 or more years to your brain’s useful life just by paying some attention to it,” he says. Here are 12 everyday tips to boost your brainpower—and then get more health, fitness, and beauty secrets in our new book, Age Erasers for Women!

1. Dance, Dance, Dance!

“Few activities stimulate as wide a variety of brain systems as dancing does,” says Daniel Amen, MD, author of Magnificent Mind at Any Age. “Dancing requires everything from coordination and organization to planning and judgment.” Ditto for martial arts. “Both require you to position different parts of your body simultaneously and in synchronicity—and with dance, you’ve got to move along to music,” says John Ratey, M.D., author of Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain. “That’s a lot of mental stimulation.”

2. Visit the Gym

According to a 2007 Columbia University study, working out at the gym may help you sprout new cells in the dentate gyrus, an area of the brain vital to memory. Researchers measured blood volume in the brains of adults who worked out four times a week for four months and found that all that activity sparks the production of more neurons.

3. Crack Some Eggs

The ideal breakfast is an egg, according to Larry McCleary, M.D., author of The Brain Trust Program. The incredible edible contains B vitamins, which enable nerve cells to burn glucose, your brain’s major energy source; antioxidants, which protect neurons against damage; and omega-3 fatty acids, which keep nerve cells firing at optimal speed. Similarly, McCleary says that the best brain foods are those that would rot if the power went out. Pick fresh fruits, veggies, and lean proteins and avoid the dreaded duo, trans fats (“they diminish brain cells’ ability to communicate with each other”) and high-fructose corn syrup (“it can shrink the brain by damaging cells”).

4. Keep On Moving On

Multitasking is like Kryptonite to gray matter. When you have a crammed to-do list, rather than layer projects, take on one task at a time and change them up every hour. Can’t finish something in 60 minutes? Schedule another slot for it later in the day. “Switching from one project to the next will engage different areas of the brain, keeping you mentally alert,” says Gary Small, M.D., director of the UCLA Center on Aging and the Semel Institute Memory Research Center and the author of The Longevity Bible.

5. Hydrate Your Mind

In a 2006 University of South Florida study, people who drank three or more 4-ounce glasses of fruit or vegetable juice each week were 76 percent less likely to develop Alzheimer’s disease than those who drank less. The high levels of polyphenols—antioxidants found in fruits and vegetables—may protect brain cells from the damage that may be caused by the disease, says study author Amy Borenstein, Ph.D. Eight six-ounce glasses of water a day will do you good, too. “Your brain is 80 percent water, and if it’s not hydrated, your neurons can’t perform properly,” says Dr. Amen.

6. Take a YouTube Timeout

You can counteract stress—and roll back psychological aging—with laughter. Even the anticipation of a good laugh decreases the stress chemicals cortisol and epinephrine by 39 and 70 percent, respectively, say researchers at Loma Linda University. Laughter is also great for the heart. When participants in a University of Maryland study watched stressful film clips, they experienced vasoconstriction—a narrowing of the blood vessels—while the blood vessels of those watching funny films expanded by 22 percent.

7. Hit the Hay

Getting plenty of snooze time is key to keeping your head on its toes. According to a 2007 study at Harvard Medical School, z’s help memories lodge themselves in your brain (as anyone who has ever pulled an all-nighter and then tried to recall important details can attest). The study showed that the brain gathers disparate pieces of information and weaves them into a coherent whole while you’re asleep. Clock seven hours of shuteye, recommends Dr. Amen. “Science shows that people who sleep for seven hours exhibit significantly more brain activity than those who don’t,” he says.

8. Disconnect the cable

A 2005 study published in Brain and Cognition found that for each additional hour per day a person spent watching TV between the ages of 40 and 59, the risk of developing Alzheimer’s later in life rose by 1.3 percent. Top out at two hours a day, recommends Aric Sigman, Ph.D., psychologist, biologist, and author of Remotely Controlled: How Television Is Damaging Our Lives, and consider joining a reading group. “Reading is good for your brain only when it involves storing and retrieving information,” says Dr. Amen. “And the social aspect of book groups adds another dynamic that bolsters cognitive functioning.”

9. Raid the Spice Rack

Sprinkle some rosemary on your entrées and side dishes. The carnosic acid found in this spice has been shown to reduce stroke risk in mice by 40 percent, according to a study published in the Journal of Neurochemistry. Carnosic acid appears to set off a process that shields brain cells from free-radical damage, which can worsen the effects of a stroke. It can also protect against degenerative diseases like Alzheimer’s and the general effects of aging. But rosemary is not the only “mind spice” on the shelf: Cinnamon, turmeric, basil, oregano, thyme, and sage can all protect your brain from inflammation, says neurologist Eric Braverman, M.D., a clinical assistant professor at Weill Cornell Medical College. Shoot for 3 to 7 teaspoons of any combination of these spices each day. “Add a teaspoon of cinnamon to your morning yogurt or coffee,” says Dr. Braverman. “Sprinkle basil and oregano on a sandwich, or stir a teaspoon of rosemary into tea. It’ll add up.”

10. Study Another Language

Parlez-vous français? Non? Then you may find yourself less able to stave off dementia when you’re older. In a 2007 study at York University in Toronto, bilingual seniors kept the worst effects of the condition at bay 4 years longer than those who’d never ventured beyond their native tongue. Learning a second language appears to increase the density of gray matter in the areas of your brain that govern attention and memory, says researcher Ellen Bialystok, Ph.D. During your commute, play some language-instruction CDs, such as the ones from Macmillan’s Behind the Wheel series.

11. Floss Your Teeth

Inflamed, bloody gums can signify bodywide wellness issues. Not only do unhealthy mouths unleash bacteria into the bloodstream, where the bugs can travel to vital organs, but people with gum disease also have worse mental functioning than those whose gums are healthy, according to a U.K. study of more than 6,500 adults.

12. Go Green

Drinking five or more cups of green tea per day can make you 20 percent less likely to experience psychological distress than if you drink less than a cup, according to a new study in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition.

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